My spouse and his co-worker flirt with each other during work hours. I feel like this is a threat to our relationship. Is there any way to find out if this is normal behavior and put my mind at ease?

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My spouse and his co-worker flirt with each other during work hours. I feel like this is a threat to our relationship. Is there any way to find out if this is normal behavior and put my mind at ease?

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Dr. Md Rushad Rahman · Answer 1 · Mar 15, 2018 08:12:42

Sounds like you don't have enough of the right information yet about this situation. 1) First, look at the specific behaviors you are noticing--what are they? and who initiates them? Or, has someone else observed the behavior(s)? 2) Talk with your spouse about the situation, and ask their perceptions of the same situation. 3) Are you satisfied with your spouse's response? 4) Is your spouse willing to step back from the situation since it bothers you? There is no 'normal.' If this situation is bothering you, then it is a problem. I suggest talking with the spouse calmly and work on the information outlined above. Good luck!

My spouse and his co-worker flirt with each other during work hours. I feel like this is a threat to our relationship. Is there any way to find out if this is normal behavior and put my mind at ease?

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