Am I trying to better myself by not being myself? If some people don't want to be around you, does that mean I should change for them?

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Dr. Md Rushad Rahman

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You should try to be the best version of yourself you can be. This means basically being yourself, cultivating your natural strengths, and occasionally changing certain things that are objectively harmful or negative. You certainly don't need to be liked by everyone, and there is no need to change for the people who don't like you. However, if *nobody* seems to like you, or if pretty much everybody is bothered by a certain behavior of yours, you should try to consider their perspective and whether it might be worth working on changing one of your bothersome characteristics.

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