My mom has been shouting at me for no reason. It's like she has got nothing else to do. I try my best to help her, but she says I make life hard. How can I avoid her?

Md Ariful Islam

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She says you make life hard. I wonder what she means by that? You say you try your best to help her, but perhaps your wires are getting crossed and what you think is helping she is interpreting as something else. It may be wise to enlist the help of a family member to help the two of you mediate an agreement, or even try getting some therapy for the two of you. If you go to your school counselor, they can provide referrals.

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