I teased my girlfriend by telling her that I would post a picture of her if she did not take my call after I called her over 15 times. Now she is really mad and broke up with me, saying I blackmailed and threatened her. But I didn't post anything. Any help?

Md Ariful Islam

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Dr. Md Rushad Rahman

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First of all, don't call your girlfriend 15 times, that is obsessive behavior that could be construed as harassment. Second, she's right. Even if you weren't serious, she didn't know that. Threatening to do something against someone's wishes if they don't do what you ask is blackmail. You don't get a pass because you didn't actually post anything. Tell her that you understand why she's upset - validate her feelings - and tell her you're sorry and it will never happen again. Give her some space and let her decide how she wants to proceed. If she doesn't want to get back together, accept it and leave her alone.

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