I had sex with my best friend of four years after I had gotten out of a relationship. She told me she wanted something serious but I wasn't ready. Now she won't talk to me but I'm ready to be with her.

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Sex with friends can be tricky, especially if one of you has recently gotten out of another relationship--emotions are all over the place! But major kudos to you for recognizing that you weren't ready for anything more serious at the time and telling her that. Your best friend in this scenario is honest communication. Unfortunately, though, if you tell her you're ready to be with her and she's no longer up for it, you might just be two ships passing in the night.

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