I have this ex-friend, who's been toxic for about a year. I told her why she had lost some friends, and all she said was, "Maybe I don't care." Then she told me she'd never cared about me.

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I have this ex-friend, who's been toxic for about a year. I told her why she had lost some friends, and all she said was, "Maybe I don't care." Then she told me she'd never cared about me.

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Dr. Md Rushad Rahman · Answer 1 · Aug 23, 2017 08:12:42

As they say, "kill them with kindness!" Even if she's being horrible to people, if you really genuinely try to be nice to her, maybe she'll see that she messed up. If she doesn't, then try to avoid talking with her. It can really affect your mood if you talk to a mean person. Act happy around her, and she might realize you're better without her. Whatever you choose to do, don't bottle up negative feelings. Write out how you feel, then tear up the piece of paper. Let the past be the past.

I have this ex-friend, who's been toxic for about a year. I told her why she had lost some friends, and all she said was, "Maybe I don't care." Then she told me she'd never cared about me.

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