Don't think about it too much and be relaxed. Make sure that you can do all the other skills that you need to master the trick. Do it on on a soft mat or something soft and have someone to help you control your balance.
You've actually come a long way already! You are reaching out for help and trying to face your fear. Needle phobia is extremely common, so just remember there is nothing...
Try jumping next to it, just to realize that you can make it over the hurdle easily. Then try stepping over it and finally take a deep breath and leap...
Do whatever you can to block the washer and dryer so that she can't get back there. For example, if there's a door to your laundry room, always keep it...
Try to spend time with him as part of a group, rather than one-on-one, and avoid being physically affectionate, as that might lead to confusing feelings.
Plants naturally grow upward toward the sun and sky, so don't be surprised if your upside down tomatoes do the same. You can train your tomatoes to grow downward by...