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Starting the Conversation
Opening up a relationship is a big step and it doesn't always go smoothly. The best way to approach the conversation is to have a plan before you start talking. Here are ten tips to get you started:
- Be honest and direct. Talk about your feelings honestly and without judgment. Don't be afraid of starting the conversation.
- Know your expectations. Know exactly what you're looking for from the open relationship in terms of rules and expectations. Discuss these with your partner before opening up.
- Understand there are no guarantees. While it's perfectly natural to hope for the best, understand that there are no guarantees that your relationship will be perfect. Be prepared for potential issues that may arise.
- Set boundaries. Once you've discussed your expectations, work together to set boundaries. Discuss what is and is not acceptable in the relationship.
- Be realistic. Don't expect the relationship to be perfect. Know that there may be disagreements and frustrations that will need to be worked through.
- Talk about jealousy and insecurity. Jealousy and insecurity are common feelings in open relationships. Figure out ways that you and your partner can work together to address any such feelings.
- Invest in your relationship. Open relationships take work. Make sure to invest your time and energy into maintaining and nurturing the relationship.
- Plan time for yourself. While it's important to spend time together, it's also important to take time for yourself to do things that make you happy.
- Have open communication. Open and honest communication is essential to maintaining a healthy open relationship.
- Be patient. This can be a difficult transition for some couples. Take your time and be patient with each other.
With these ten tips, you and your partner can have a meaningful conversation about polyamory. Good luck!
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