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Responding to a Girl Saying She Likes You Over Text
So a girl has just told you she likes you over text… what to do? It can be a bit overwhelming, and you may be unsure on the right way to respond, but don’t worry. We’ve got some tips to help you navigate the situation in a positive and successful way.
Step 1: Take a Moment to Reflect
Before you respond, take a moment to pause and reflect. Give yourself the time to think about how you feel about the girl, as well as what you’d like to say. It could be helpful to write down some thoughts or ideas, as it might make it easier to sort through your feelings.
Step 2: Ask Clarifying Questions
When you’re ready to respond, it can be helpful to start the conversation by asking clarifying questions. This helps you to better understand what she’s feeling and what she’d like to happen in the future. Some questions you could consider asking are:
- How long have you had these feelings for?
- What do you see for us in the future?
- Do you want to talk about this more in person?
Step 3: Be Honest
It’s important to be honest with yourself and her about your feelings. If you don’t feel the same way, let her know kindly and be empathetic to her feelings. If you do feel the same way, then express that in your response. Remember to be mindful of your words, both in how you express your feelings and how you handle your emotions.
Step 4: Listen and Be Understanding
No matter what your response is, try to stay open to listening and being understanding. This will help create an environment where the girl feels respected and both of you can express how you truly feel about each other.
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