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Ways to Get Your Best Friend's Boyfriend to Like You

Having a crush on your best friend’s boyfriend can be a complicated situation to navigate. Trying to get a guy to like you can be a challenging process in general, but when the guy is already spoken for, it may feel impossible. However, it is possible to engineer circumstances so the guy takes notice of you and starts to have a positive opinion of you. With some patience, understanding, and flexibility, you can try and get the guy to like you.

  • Maintain a respectful distance. Even if you become friends with your best friend’s boyfriend, it’s important to continue being respectful of their relationship. Showing your friend that you don’t want her to feel uncomfortable is a great way to show her and her boyfriend that you are trustworthy.
  • Make an effort to get to know him. Spend some time talking to your best friend’s boyfriend and get to know him better. You can reveal more of your personality and interests without prying too much into his relationship with your best friend.
  • Show interest in common activities. If your best friend’s boyfriend likes a particular hobby or interest, show that you are interested too. Find out what his favorite activity is and attend events or gatherings related to that activity. This will help show him that you share some interests and it could help spark a friendship between you two.
  • Be understanding. It can be hard to regularly interact with your best friend’s boyfriend and not have any expectations. This is a crucial part of not crossing any boundaries. Even if you are interested in the guy, try not to take it out on him by making him feel uncomfortable.
  • Talk to your best friend. Talk to your best friend first and explain to her why you’re interested in her boyfriend. If she is open to the idea, then the two of you could discuss ways to make it work out for everyone. Having an honest conversation can help ease the tension and show your friend that you are confident and open about your feelings.
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