How to Cope When You'll Never See Your Crush Again
A crush can make your life feel full of possibilities. When that person is suddenly no longer part of your life, it can be especially hard. Here are some tips to cope when you'll never see your crush again:
- Focus on Yourself: Remember, this isn't the end of your life or your happiness. Spend time focusing on yourself and what will make you happy. Dedicate some time to take up a hobby that you've been wanting to try or reconnect with friends who make you laugh.
- Replace Memorabilia: When we fall in love, we often feel inspired and take time to write love letters or make gifts for our crushes. If these items are still around, find ways to replace them with something else that brings you joy.
- Take Time to Grieve: It's perfectly okay to be upset or cry. Take whatever time you need to process your emotions. Have a good cry, scream in a pillow, write out your feelings, or take some time away from your everyday life.
- Talk with Someone: Find an understanding person to talk to about your situation. Whether it's a friend, family member, or counselor, having someone who will listen and offer advice can help you cope with your thoughts and feelings.
- Live in the Moment: Ultimately, life is about the present and future, not the past. Stop dwelling on the person you lost and start to reimagine and redefine the life you want.